Her solution
Savannah complains of different pains, usually at the end of the day, usually in one of her calves. Once she said her head hurt, her stomach; sometimes it's just a mosquito bite that itches. My solution is the "cold, wet rag." Children have so many aches and pains, it's hard to know what's real, what's mild, and what actually needs Tylenol. The cold, wet rag makes her happy, gives her a solution. It's part of our routine. She automatically gets one now upon being tucked in.
A couple of weeks ago, the subject of having a baby came up. I don't remember how the conversation got started or progressed. It is not something i would've initiated, but I wound up saying something like, "Yeah, having a baby is painful." (Tuning it down of course.) She showed some concern, furrowing her brow, "Really?" "Yeah, it hurts some." "Well, I guess I could just use a cold, wet rag."