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February 21, 2003

The Arkansas in her

Savannah likes collard greens! She calls them "spinach."

I just call them greens because I had the feeling the word "collard" might keep her from trying them. I know anything with the word "bean" attached to it is an atomatic turnoff.

I boil them for ten minutes then cook in a skillet with a little olive oil, salt and garlic. I'd love a little lemon juice, but when I tried that with spinach, she wouldn't have it. I know what she'd think of the traditional vinegar and hot sauce in the collards.

This makes four green things she'll eat, including brocolli and cucumber. I need to find out how to cook kale.

February 18, 2003

Different than I was

Savannah has a sense of possession, ownership, that I don't remember having as a child. I have it now, but I'm an adult now.

And I don't so much mean owning things, but owning the ideas of how things ought to be. Her way. With that, I don't think she'll have the problems I have of worrying what others think. Unless I ruin her.

I see her becoming a leader who knows what she wants. I just wondered if I'd named her wrong. Savannah's such a soft name, so different than mine, Georgia. Mine has edges. The movie, Savannah Smiles, was where I first heard it. Everybody remembers that little girl's smile and how cute she was.

But mine is a sweet girl, no doubt. When she has seen me cry, she has run to get toilet paper, very sure that's what will make everything better. And around the house, I hear again and again, "Can I help?", "What can I do?" while I'm cleaning and moving from room to room.

I've been in my own world lately, this afternoon reading the last of the C.S. Lewis science fiction triology. I've just decided to only read after she's in bed. When she's asleep, I always think, we'll get along better tomorrow. Her three year old phase won't get to me. After all, I'm the adult here.

February 9, 2003

Everything has its place.

Savannah's new playroom, the mudroom, didn't work out. She has a real need to put things in their special place, and leave them there, a long time. Tonight I reached for the roll of toilet paper so she could blow her nose. It sat on top of her Pooh Bear hat boxes. On top of the toilet paper, she had stacked three miniature board books. On top of that sat a pretend plastic bottle of doll shampoo. Even with a fever she told me to put everything back how it had been.

In her playroom, she had parts to two tea sets, some metal plates, about 25 pieces of pretend food, five dolls, three of the dolls in little chairs, several pots and pans, a puzzle, a puzzle still in its box, a trivet she painted herself, her Lucky Ducks game and four pictures drawn by her own hand all placed in their special places on her kitchen, the rug and the slate of the mudroom floor.

I had explained the rule when we set it up. We have to be able to walk through the mud room, thinking she'd keep everything on the rug in the corner. She has a mind of her own.

So when Daddy took her outside to shovel snow on Friday, I made a space in her bedroom for the kitchen and carried it upstairs. I thought she'd be upset because she'd been proud of her new playroom, taking Alex downstairs last Monday to show it off. But she was perfectly fine with it, only showing interest in I could have gotten it to her room. We told her I was strong and that she'd be strong like me someday and we could arm wrestle.

So the new rule is, before bed, her floor has to be clean enough to walk across it. So far, so good.

Dick, Jane and Sally

Since Savannah has just started her reading journey, Amee sent some old books that Brad and his siblings read when they were young. Some of the pages are a little ripped, so we're learning how to be gentle. Me too. Oops.

She is especially enjoying these books, I think, because they're old. It makes them more interesting. Maybe in the same way that I find old black and white episodes of The Twilight Zone interesting. She wondered who may have torn a particular page. Since Daddy might have read it at some point, I said, "Maybe Daddy tore it."

I think this fascinates her, thinking that her grown up Daddy tore a page! Now, whenever she comes to a torn page she says, "Who teared dis?"
-I say, "I don't know."
-"Maybe Daddy teared it," she always suggests.
-"Maybe."
-"Uh, huh."

Fever-no Bible Hour, no party

Yesterday, early evening, Savannah complained of being cold. She's still running a fever today, going up and down. One armpit reading was 103.5. We're giving her medicine, did the tepid bath, gave her cool water and a popsicle.

Around dinner tonight, she became more demanding and fussy. Daddy and I thought she must be getting better. A friend of mine who works with sick babies says it's time to send them home to their parents when they get grouchy.

Savannah's been handling it well. She's been pretty passive from feeling bad. She's not whiny about it. I hope to find her fever gone tomorrow morning.

I told her about her best friend's birthday party right before I discovered the fever. Fortunately, she hasn't remembered it yet. I told the girl's mother that we'd have them over Thursday for some Carvel cake and presents.

She may have forgotten about the party, but she didn't forget about this being Sunday. Her 12 year old friend, Anna, was helping in Bible hour, and Savannah looked forward to Anna's teaching her this morning. Someone also made Anna a birthday cake to be eaten today. I called Anna's mom so they could save Savannah a piece, but even Marianne didn't get one.

February 3, 2003

Her little heartbreak

Savannah had her friend, Alex(andra), over today. They usually play very well together, Alex saying I love you when they meet and Savannah telling others at worship, "This is my best friend."

Alex missed her nap today. Savannah never takes one. When the playdate was over, Alex wasn't happy about going home and cried. Her mother asked if she'd like to come back another time (trying to help her think about playing again rather than leaving.) But Alex was just too sad. So she said through her crying, "No."

Well, Savannah took it literally and started crying, her real cry, very sad. She turned toward me and hugged my leg. So Cory, Alex's mom, had her hug Savannah. They hugged by the door, both of them crying.

She cried just a little bit longer, "She doesn't want to come to my house." I later explained she was just sad and that Alex loves her. I got her upstairs so we could lie down together. She brought her big lady bug sleeping bag onto my bed so I could zip it up for her. She didn't stay long, but she forgot about why she was crying.

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